Fri 20
May
2005
She’s having a baby
Now, I know other people have had babies. I see them all the time. In fact, I have it on good authority that, at one time, I was a baby myself. So on the one hand, surely there should be nothing newsworthy about the impending arrival of yet another one. But on the other, OH MY GOD MY WIFE IS PREGNANT.
I know, I know. Deep breaths. Work through it. Okay. Here are the facts: The due date is August 22. We know the baby’s sex (my theory is the birth will be interesting enough without needing to build up any additional suspense), but are not telling anybody (because we’re cruel). It’s our first.
Phoooo. Phoooo.
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Myrth (#22)
Location: London, UK
Quote: "A quote must have a beginning, a middle and an"
Posted: 6913 days ago
John Morris (#346)
Location: Penn Valley
Quote: "to be or not to be"
Posted: 6913 days ago
Arjun Ravi Narayan (#98)
Location: India
Posted: 6913 days ago
shes gonna be named jennifer? or hes gonna be named hack, right?
i mean if youre gonna forsake your kid to a life of cliches theres the place to start!
JacksSmirkingRevenge (#1324)
Location: That place where Billy Elliot was comitted, England
Quote: "What can the harvest hope for if not for the care of the reaper man?"
Posted: 6912 days ago
David (#577)
Location: Belgium
Posted: 6912 days ago
I feel you should write more newspost or comments about the baby so that we can trick you in using a male/female third-person singular pronoun and find out the gender.
Or create a "when is the baby going to pop out? time/date" competition for a signed version of one of your books!
Sophie (#891)
Location: Devon
Posted: 6912 days ago
I'm really curious to know what he/she's going to be called ... if your books are anything to go by, you seem really imaginative with names. I'm expecting nothing less than Cindy Cindy, Scat, 6, @, Babelicous or Hack Nike.
Also, your wife's really pretty, so this should be a very foxy and talented kid (even if it does end up with a majorly quirky name) ;)
And I think we should try and guess the baby's sex ... I guess its a girl. There could be a prize for whoever guesses correctly ... like, a signed copy of Company... If I win this I'd totally baby-sit for you next time I'm in Australia.
Melinda Kovac (#583)
Location: South Australia
Quote: "Nothing says feminine like a burping contest"
Posted: 6912 days ago
I was lucky enough to meet your dear wife at a 101st gathering in Townsville last year and this is indeed a surprise. I guess it explains why I haven't seen her online for a while, and guess I won't once the baby's born either.
My best wishes to the mum-to-be!! Please keep us updated!
All the best,
Mel (from GA)
spinne (#427)
Quote: "I'm not here to cock around."
Posted: 6912 days ago
Justin Holt (#147)
Location: Rochester, NY
Quote: "www.justinholt.net"
Posted: 6912 days ago
Barry Mitchell (#1001)
Location: Saukville, Wisconsin
Quote: ""A hamster's like a small camel" - Ben Katz"
Posted: 6912 days ago
Lapse (#86)
Location: Brisbane Australia
Quote: "You're adopted and we hate you."
Posted: 6912 days ago
Congratulations!
thewylddream (#1191)
Location: Montana USA
Quote: ""Always forgive your enemies -- Nothing annoys them so much." ~Oscar Wilde~"
Posted: 6912 days ago
Rod McBride (#688)
Location: Gardner, KS
Quote: "www.MidwestRockLobster.blogspot.com"
Posted: 6912 days ago
Nothing I've done has made me grow as a person and rewarded me so much, anyway. Plus, and I hate to make a Dr. Laura allusion, but the lady nailed it when she had a caller trying to decide between kiddos and a career: a career won't come to Thanksgiving dinner.
I know, that's not an Australian holiday, but surely you have an equivalent.
And yes, I'm aware that in most cases a career won't call you at 3:00 a.m. for bail money...
Fionut (#467)
Location: London, England
Quote: "Always remember you're unique, just like everyone else."
Posted: 6912 days ago
Enjoy your last few months of peace.
Mapuche (#1184)
Location: Darwin, Australia
Quote: "Inconceivable!"
Posted: 6912 days ago
Remember, whatever the doctors say, childbirth is _NATURAL_ and whilst parts of the process seem to be hurting your dearly beloved, they aren't actually doing her any damage...
Sincere congratualations to you and your wife, and good wishes for a safe and healthy arrival of 'it'. May love abound in your soon to be family...
Mr Nick (#1166)
Location: Wayne, MI
Posted: 6912 days ago
Beautiful wife, bun in the oven, and you write for a living. Wanna trade?
Andrew (#1279)
Location: Texas
Posted: 6912 days ago
Name him Andrew :D...!
DewKnight (#815)
Location: WP, CO,USA
Quote: "Booyah"
Posted: 6912 days ago
Jason (#1193)
Location: Indianapolis, IN
Quote: "The bulwark of the suggestion box has failed."
Posted: 6912 days ago
Bonnie McDonald (#1138)
Location: Florida
Quote: ""You may be on the B Squad, but you're the B Squad leader""
Posted: 6912 days ago
One more idea...you should consider opening a P.O.Box that all of your adoring fans could send baby gifts to. It's not greedy, and you will probably get tons of free stuff.
Congrats again!
syrup6 (#1224)
Location: Arkansas
Quote: ""Truth always rests with the minority, and the minority is always stronger than the majority, because the minority is generally formed by those who really have an opinion" - Kierkegaard"
Posted: 6912 days ago
I had a crazy dream last night about a new born baby girl named Jaquline... hmm...
Matt (#61)
Location: Chicago
Posted: 6912 days ago
Peter N.Bernath (#1041)
Location: Stockholm - Sweden
Quote: "Errr... Is that a tree growing out of your head? - Fallout 2"
Posted: 6912 days ago
Happy Birthday to yooou! *really singing out loud*
Happy Birthday to Yooouu! *still singing but not so loud anymore since the people at the office are giving strange glances*
Happy Birthday Deeear, ummm..., BAAABYY *opera voice not impressing boss*
happy birthday to you. *really quiet this time, almost whispering, boss moving awaaa...aaa...Y*
HAPPY BIIIIIRTHDAAAAY TOOOOOOOOOIIIIIII YOOOOOOOOUUU!!! *security guys coming running, hiiiide, plan to blame it on Liz*
So there it is, Liz got fired and I'm still happy after the song. It works out for all of us! Come on and join the singin'
Peter Baker (#475)
Location: Calgary, Alberta, Canada
Quote: "I reject your reality and substitute my own."
Posted: 6912 days ago
Congrats Max. Watch out... they bite..
Adam A. (#256)
Location: Phoenix, Arizona
Quote: "Think of how stupid the average person is, and realize half of them are stupider than that." -George Carlin"
Posted: 6912 days ago
RaptorRed (#78)
Location: Ohio, USA
Quote: "Nothing real can defeat us, nothing unreal exists."
Posted: 6912 days ago
Adam (#24)
Location: Morristown, Indiana
Quote: "Why do I blog? Simple, because Max Barry blogs."
Posted: 6912 days ago
YOU DON'T EVEN UNDERSTAND GOSSIP.
First of all, I would like to congratulate max on his wife being pregnant. I would also like to congratulate him for being an able bodied man. I have heard rumors that it is a boy. I also heard that max was going to name it after himself, Max Jr. I have very good sources, but I cannot give you any of them for they are so secret that I do not even know their names.
In my own personal life, many adventures await as I move into a new stage of my schooling career, summer vacation. Summer vacation is not an interesting enough topic to write about so I will try something esle.
Pandas. What do we know about pandas? They are very cute bears that would probably kill you if you tried to pet them. We also know that they are dying because boy pandas don't have very good dating techniques. That is why I feel that I am somewhat like a panda....that was boringly educational...
Until next time...
I will never stop blogging...no matter how annoying it actually is to all you who waste your time reading this...
Adam
Adam (#24)
Location: Morristown, Indiana
Quote: "Why do I blog? Simple, because Max Barry blogs."
Posted: 6912 days ago
Rachael just gave Joey half of her gum...FROM HER MOUTH!!!
OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG.....OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG!!!!!
POS, don't type anything........
OMG OMG OMG OMG...
Adam
shabooty (#637)
Location: D.C./V.A/M.D.
Quote: "I will shake your foundation. I will shake the f**cking rafters. Nobody'll be the same -Danny Bonaduce ....& go visit my blog @: http://www.shabooty.com"
Posted: 6912 days ago
Sneaky Skeet
=)
and congrats!
Emily (#609)
Location: New York
Quote: "When in doubt, fuck it. When not in doubt, get in doubt!"
Posted: 6912 days ago
It's just as well, because I'd like suspense. Can't wait to find out! ;-)
Peace, mate,
-Em
Ezzra (#40)
Location: Wherever my imagination takes me...
Quote: "Why do you sit there looking like an envelope without any address on it? -Mark Twain"
Posted: 6912 days ago
Dawn (#270)
Location: Atlanta, GA, USA
Quote: "It's too bad I don't have something witty to write here..."
Posted: 6912 days ago
Matthew (#16)
Location: Columbus, Ohio
Quote: "Unicorn on mountain top. Wind blowing through mane."
Posted: 6912 days ago
Mark LaFlamme (#1327)
Location: Maine
Quote: "It wasn't me, it was some other guy."
Posted: 6912 days ago
Kat (#299)
Location: My bedroom
Quote: ""The abolition of man is within the reach of science""
Posted: 6912 days ago
Thomas (#1221)
Location: Germany
Quote: "One more, and I'm going to consider you my penpal."
Posted: 6911 days ago
That's no fair competition.
Congratulations. :-P
Tony Quin (#1310)
Location: Plymouth -urgh
Quote: "Yoga is NAILS"
Posted: 6911 days ago
I agree with whosoever said that you should keep names secret as well. You'll have all and sundry saying they have a better one, whilst thinking up all the nasty nicknames possible from your suggestions.
Danni (#357)
Location: England
Quote: "Eagerly awaiting the European Tour."
Posted: 6911 days ago
My daughter Samantha (16 1/2 months) said Yak when I told her you were going to be a father. Ah well, that's toddlers for you ;)
Cotland (#1325)
Location: jippi
Posted: 6911 days ago
(translated from Norwegian)
Congratulations. I hope that the baby will be a joy and pleasure for the both of you.
Lots and lots of best wishes from a Norwegian NSer
Silke (#968)
Location: Hamburg, Germany
Quote: ""Not only do I not know the answer - I don't even know what the question is..." [Metallica]"
Posted: 6911 days ago
My dearest congratulations! I am so glad for you and your wife!
All the best wishes from Germany!
Jason C. (#1266)
Location: Drive north from Max's place for about four/five days
Quote: "Be just. And if you can't be just, be arbitrary."
Posted: 6911 days ago
Congratulations, I hope everything goes smoothly and you both enjoy parenthood (because there's no turning back now!)
Stuart Lamble (#1321)
Location: Melbourne, Australia
Quote: "Growing old is mandatory. Growing up is optional."
Posted: 6910 days ago
A few words of wisdom, paraphrased from a British comedy show: "Soon, you shall find that your Significant Other's breasts have ceased to be objects of mystical desire, and have instead become a very effective pair of silencers."
Enjoy every moment, and cherish the young years. They're at once both the scariest, and the most exhilerating, and they shall never come again.
Good luck.
Ruth (#288)
Location: Bath, United Kingdom
Quote: "Only the insane have strength enough to prosper. Only those who prosper may truly judge what is sane."
Posted: 6910 days ago
Rob2Kx (#1125)
Location: Canada
Quote: "Anything for laughs even if it kills you"
Posted: 6910 days ago
I'm shocked. But good for you.
Jjuulliiaann (#1111)
Location: New York
Quote: "Religion is the Opium of the People --Karl Marx"
Posted: 6910 days ago
Matt (#61)
Location: Chicago
Posted: 6910 days ago
Scott (#354)
Location: Grand Rapids, MI
Quote: "Max Barry tastes like awesome"
Posted: 6910 days ago
Michael Faulkner (#373)
Location: Winter Park, FL
Quote: "BURRRRRITTTTOOOOOOS!!!! -- Gir"
Posted: 6910 days ago
DR (#1183)
Location: USA
Quote: "I can picture in my mind a world without war, a world without hate. And I can picture us attacking that world, because they'd never expect it. 'jack handey"
Posted: 6909 days ago
But Max, really! How could it be possible that you didn't notice until half-way through the second trimester?
Or did we just not merit the news until now? Pfft.
Brad Mendenhall (#23)
Location: Shrewsbury, Pa
Quote: "Max Barry? I thought I this was the Dave Barry Website! You mean he doesn't swear he's not making this up? (Shameless Plug - check out my website www.CosmicGeppetto.com)"
Posted: 6909 days ago
Oh yeah, congrats on the baby thing.
Nathicana (#1331)
Location: Iowa, USA
Quote: "Dimmi con chi vai chi ti diro chi sei."
Posted: 6909 days ago
Guarantee you're in for some experiences you'd never dreamed of with the lil one. Maybe not all great, true (I think we could all pass on the diapers bit for one), but somehow, I've found all the amazing little moments they bring with them tend to make all the work and the worry more than worth it.
Like the first time you hold that baby in your arms, or see your little one smile, and the way they seem to just trust you implicitly ... and the best part? It just keeps getting better.
Sure one minute you may wonder what in the world you're going to do with the lil stinkers, but the next, you'll be wondering how you ever got along without the them.
Kids have a funny way of doing that to ya.
Chris H (#1066)
Location: Where Washington crossed the Delaware.
Quote: "Chris is like a medium range ballistic name. Ok, so it's not, but it sounded kind of cool. Not really."
Posted: 6909 days ago
Chris Walker-Bush (#1334)
Location: Newcastle
Quote: "Desperately Seeking Publication"
Posted: 6909 days ago
Witnessed a birth before? It 'aint pretty. Best of luck with it, and again, congratulations.
Kenneth Lim (#1336)
Location: Singapore
Quote: "Quote? Argh.. Who would care anyway."
Posted: 6908 days ago
Well life's hard all around eh mate?
Something almost always gotta give.
CheerS~
Mats (#1057)
Location: Turku, Finland, Europe, Earth
Quote: ""The optimist thinks this is the best of all possible worlds, and the pessimist knows it." James Branch Cabell via Robert Oppenheimer"
Posted: 6908 days ago
Ehdotan että annatte lapselle nimen Mats, sillä tavalla kukaan ei pidä sinua egoistisena idioottina vaikka lapsesi nimi on melkein sama kuin sinulla.
Translation from Finnish:
Congratulations to you and your wife!
I suggest you call the kid Mats, that way noone will think you're an egotistical idiot even though your childs name is almost the same as yours.
Peter N.Bernath (#1041)
Location: Stockholm - Sweden
Quote: "Errr... Is that a tree growing out of your head? - Fallout 2"
Posted: 6906 days ago
I mean, you'll have to finish it completely before the Baby pops out yelling: "MEEEE, MEEEE, I WANT THE ATTENTION DADA!!"
So please finish it before it's to late. And congrats again! ;)
Karen (#245)
Location: Belfast, Northern Ireland
Quote: "It takes more muscles to frown than to smile, but I like my face to be fit."
Posted: 6906 days ago
Seriously, hope Jen's pregnancy goes really well, and that you both enjoy being parents!
Bony Tony (#1343)
Location: United States
Posted: 6905 days ago
the-tine (#472)
Location: Pennsylvania, USA
Quote: "Coming soon to a planet near you."
Posted: 6904 days ago
Soigacas (#1354)
Location: UK
Quote: "Someday this war's gonna end"
Posted: 6901 days ago
Max II sounds good to me. Instant coolness. Or maybe Max 2.0 - but I guess it's been done
The M.S.R. of Panglossa (#1337)
Location: Boise, Idaho
Quote: "All is for the best in the best of all possible worlds!"
Posted: 6900 days ago
Hahahahahahahahahah!!!!! <Cackle> <Cackle> <Cackle>
speaking as the parent of 3 boys, ages 18, 15, 12.)
Seriously, I imagine that all will be for the best...
Good luck :-)(
Picto (#64)
Location: United Kingdom
Quote: "Who is more foolish, the child afraid of the dark or the man afraid of the light? - Maurice Freehill"
Posted: 6898 days ago
Jjuulliiaann (#1111)
Location: New York
Quote: "Religion is the Opium of the People --Karl Marx"
Posted: 6886 days ago
Arundhati (#1422)
Location: India
Quote: "Do not meddle in the affairs of dragons, for you are crunchy and taste good with ketchup."
Posted: 6878 days ago
Just finished reading Jennifer Government. Am now wading through your archives, and trying to get my hands on your other work (harder than I expected, in New Delhi). Hope to get myself up to speed before my employers find out what I do with their internet and my work hours.
Congratulations on the Barry-in-progress.
I do believe you're the only one in the world who responds to the news of impending offspring by writing fiction involving *spoiler ahead* out-of-the-ordinary-and-not-in-a-good-way babies :)
Argh! I can't resist.... Kate if its a girl and Christopher if its a boy!!! (and under no circumstances Dave!)
cheers!
::: wanders away to lurk some more :::
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